“If your choices are beautiful,” Epictetus said, “so too will you be.”
You are what your choices make you, nothing more and nothing less.
Isn’t this what we try to teach our kids? That, yes of course, we love them unconditionally and unequivocally, and have since the moment they were born—but they have this incredible power to choose what kind of person they’re going to be. The reason we read to them, the reason we tell them things, the reason we have rules and punishments and incentives is to try to instill in them a good compass for making good choices.
But here’s a question for you as we head into the second half of 2026: Are you making beautiful choices? What are your sleep habits like? Are you stuck in your comfort zone? Are you practicing good boundaries? Are you challenging yourself to grow and change?
Every day presents us with plenty of opportunities to make beautiful choices. There are the small daily choices: what to eat, how to talk to people, whether we pick up the phone or a journal, what we think about, how we get physically active. And some days, there are bigger choices: whether we stand up for what’s right, whether we reach down to help someone who needs it, what kind of work we do, what standards we hold ourselves to.
If you want a beautiful life, there’s no escaping it: you have to get in the habit of making beautiful choices. If you want your kids to have a good life, they will need to get in the habit of making beautiful choices as well. Who will show them how to do that, if not you?
There is nothing more powerful than a good habit. Nothing that holds us back quite like a bad habit. We are what we do. What we do determines who we can be. You’ve seen these forces at work in your own life, for better and—frustratingly all too often—for worse.
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